Read on about whether conservative men scapegoat women for being more “natural.”
Showing posts with label Feminism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Feminism. Show all posts
Monday, September 21, 2026
Monday, April 27, 2026
On Medium: Why Liberal Men and Women Resent Each Other
Read on about the battle between the sexes, and how feminism is humanism that entails transhumanism.
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
On Medium: No One Likes Talking About Men
Here's an article about the strange disparity between between stories about maleness and femaleness on Medium.
Wednesday, August 27, 2025
On Medium: Femininity and the Humanist Restoration of Goddess Culture
Here's an article about the search for women’s authentic self-expression, a search that would bypass the patriarchal conceptions of womanliness.
Monday, January 13, 2025
On Medium: Who has the Best Takedown of Toxic “Wokeness”?
Here's a dialogue on the best grounds for criticizing some social justice advocates’ tribal distortion of liberalism: Christianity or secular humanism.
Friday, December 27, 2024
On Medium: Is “Wokeness” a “Protected Category” on Medium?
Read on about the pejorative sense of "wokeness" and the danger of overprotecting some ideologues with a double standard of censorship.
Thursday, December 5, 2024
On Medium: Shakespeare Foreshadowed Alt-Right Sexism
Read on about how feminists should answer the conservative's appeal to the natural differences between men and women, an appeal that's meant to justify sexist policies.
Monday, March 11, 2024
On Medium: “Barbie” Should Have Been More Existential
Read on for a review of the movie "Barbie," to see why, based on evolutionary psychology and contrary to kneejerk feminism, it's “literally impossible” to be a man too.
Thursday, March 23, 2023
On Medium: Shouldn’t Incels and Femcels Cancel Each Other Out?
Read on about involuntary celibacy, the black pill, and how incels are toxically masculine even as their critique of mainstream society isn't preposterous.
Monday, April 11, 2022
On Medium: Is Hollywood’s Identity Politics “Humanistic”?
Here's an article about how religious and secular humanisms nullify the American culture war, and how to emphasize our personal and social differences for a humanistic purpose.
Thursday, April 1, 2021
On Medium: Foucault and the Bogus War for Social Justice
Here's an article on modernity and the phony wisdom of wokeness, comparing the two types of alleged enlightenment.
Thursday, March 18, 2021
On Medium: American Paranoia and the Modern Legacy of Nihilism
Read on about Machiavellian centrism, the secret weariness of progressives and Trumpian conservatives, and how American politics is nihilistic despite all the hot air.
Thursday, January 28, 2021
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
Sunday, November 8, 2020
On Medium: American Malady and the Closeness of Biden’s Victory Over Trump
This article explores how Republican radicalism, the cult of Trump, and Democratic femininity explain the narrowness of Biden's defeat of Trump.
Monday, August 31, 2020
On Medium: Woke Culture and Toxic Femininity
This article is about the less familiar type of personal toxicity, the feminine kind: how it evolved, the values that emerge from it, and how both male psychopathy and toxic femininity might be surpassed by hyperrational existentialism.
Sunday, February 2, 2020
On Medium: Woke Propaganda and the Fear of Art
This article is about how identity politics ruins the art of storytelling and why those who grow up with social media and the internet prefer propaganda and fear art.
Thursday, January 2, 2020
On Medium: Masculinity and Outsider Virtues
This article is about masculinity and its so-called toxic variety, the latter being just the primitive alphaness that eventually shows through, thanks to how the concentration of social power in a leader's hands tends to corrupt the leader. The article thus asks whether we should prefer to follow masculine dominators or alienated losers.
Sunday, January 20, 2019
The Brawl of Masculinities
The stirring of a men’s movement on the intellectual dark
web, the vengeance of the #MeToo backlash, the lame posturing of the Gillette ad, and the American Psychological Association’s warning that
toxic masculinity is bad for mental health—these have all raised the question
of the nature of masculinity. Is there an ideal way to be a man? Is that question politically loaded or otherwise socially constructed? Or is there a more philosophical perspective that enables us to see through the political games and illuminate the larger problem?
Conservative and Liberal Masculinities
George Monbiot takes up the question of toxic masculinity in a Guardian article, arguing against the conventional wisdom on the right that ‘a
“grown man” requires “oppressive” discipline, aggression and risk-taking.’ On
the contrary, writes Monbiot, “growing up—whether as a man or a woman— means
abandoning anger, aggression and the need to dominate. It means learning to
talk about fear, loss, joy and love. It means learning both to listen and to
share, to name your troubles and engage with other people’s.” Far from being
tougher than the average liberal softy, the macho right-winger is especially
vulnerable, says Monbiot, because he often hides some unresolved emotional trauma
that threatens to undo his accomplishments. “What sort of a man are you if you
have to go to such lengths to prove your masculinity? The confident
construction of identity does not require crude cultural markers, but emotional
literacy and honest self-appraisal. The more we proclaim our strength and
dominance, the weaker we reveal ourselves to be.”
The problem with these discussions is that there’s no such
thing as men, psychologically
speaking. Most men have the same biological traits, but in large societies men
organize themselves into hierarchies, and men at the top are mentally unlike
men at the bottom. Our social position impacts our personality, so the
differences aren’t subjective. Broadly
speaking, men fall into three groups: leaders, followers, and outsiders.
The first two groups are part of a larger group which is opposed to outsiders,
so that there’s an even broader distinction between winners and losers. The
former three categories correspond to the ethological terms, “alpha,” “beta,”
and “omega,” although that terminology is tainted by its association with the
alt right. In any case, just as there are classes of men with distinct ideals
befitting their social station, there are masculinities
rather than an overarching value system that ought self-evidently to be adopted
by all men.
Male leaders idolize the psychopath, because what distinguishes these men is the social
power that naturally corrupts their character, sapping them of their capacities
for empathy, compassion and humour. The set of psychopathic traits that
characterizes the action movie star, for example, is the traditional kind of
masculinity favoured by “conservatives,” since the tradition they wish to
conserve or reestablish is monarchism, slavery to the ultra-ruler or tyrant.
Conservatism is thus a social movement that prizes bullying, at a
minimum, if not a totalitarian dictatorship, and so conservatives seek to
preserve the social systems that enable bullies to emerge and prosper. A bully is just a leader whose dominance
is recognized by his followers, because the leader has demonstrated his greater
share of social power by conspicuous acts of belittling others in the group.
The bully’s psychopathic traits, in turn, evolved out of desperation when long
ago hunters needed to psych themselves up to bring down big game. Psyching themselves up to stalk
dangerous prey or to guard the tribe against fellow predators meant turning
themselves at least temporarily into psychos,
that is, into fearless, amoral killers. Once our kind succeeded in lording it
over the animal kingdoms, our “leaders” trained their psychopathic traits onto
the rest of us, and so they became hunters of men and
women—not of their fellow humans, mind you, but of subordinate ranks of human
creatures that only outwardly resemble them.
Tuesday, May 8, 2018
Incels and the Call for Omega Enlightenment
On April 23, 2018, 25-year old Alek Minassian attacked bystanders by hitting them with a rented van, killing 10 and
injuring 16. The attack happened in northern Toronto, ten minutes from where I
live. Minassian was apprehended and a bystander recorded his showdown with the
police. Perhaps because of Canada’s strict gun laws, Minassian was reduced to attempting
to provoke the policeman into shooting him, by pointing his cellphone at him as
though it were a gun, because apparently Minassian had no gun.
As to the attack’s motive, the general suspicion is that
Minassian identifies as a militant incel, an involuntary celibate who
sought revenge against the sexually active for having humiliated him by
rejecting him. Shortly before the attack, Minassian posted this message on
Facebook: “Private (Recruit) Minassian Infantry 00010, wishing to speak to Sgt
4chan please. C23249161. The Incel Rebellion has already begun! We will
overthrow all the Chads and Stacys! All hail the Supreme Gentleman Elliot
Rodger!” Minassian had enrolled in the Canadian Armed Forces, but dropped out
after 16 days of training. “Chads and Stacys” is incel code for popular,
physically attractive and altogether successful, sexually active men and women.
Elliot Rodger is a 22-year old incel who in 2014 killed 6 and injured 14 fellow
students in Isla Vista, California, by shooting them and hitting them with his
car. In the middle of the attack, he uploaded a video to YouTube called “Elliot
Rodger’s Retribution,” in which he explained that he wanted to punish women for
rejecting him, and punish men for making him envy them. He also uploaded his
manifesto, which reads more like an autobiography. After the attack, he
killed himself.
The Cult of Involuntary Celibacy
Incel cultists describe themselves as going their own way and as having downed “the
black pill,” which alludes to The Matrix
movie but more specifically to the “red pill” of pickup culture. That culture combs through evolutionary psychology for techniques to
exploit women’s biological weaknesses, effectively hoping to con them into
having sex with them. But when the techniques fail and the would-be seducer is
revealed as “having no game,” he may opt to swallow the black pill, as it were,
meaning that he exchanges evolutionary psychology for a more pessimistic
worldview. Wikipedia notes that “A 2001 Georgia State University study
found that people who self-identified as incels tended to feel frustrated,
depressed, and angry regardless of why they felt they were involuntarily
celibate. These researchers found that involuntary celibacy was often
correlated with depression, neuroticism, anxiety, and autistic disorders.”
Another researcher, Debrah Soh, argues that the militant
incels who advocate or fantasize about raping or murdering sexually-satisfied
people suffer from more than just toxic masculinity, the latter being a set of repressed
masculine traits that eventually explode in disastrous ways, as in Fight Club. Instead, she
writes, “these crimes are instances of antisociality
manifesting as hatred toward women.” In other words, Rodger, Minassian, and the
worst of the goons on 4Chan or incel discussion boards are sociopaths who
happen to be involuntarily celibate. The key point is that “Even if those in
the incel community were sexually active, they would still harbour resentment
toward women.” Moreover, ‘Most men do not behave like this, including men who
are sexually frustrated. Those blaming “toxic masculinity” and “rape culture”
are missing the mark—this isn’t an issue about gender and it shouldn’t be made
into one.’
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